SportSheets Vibrating Velvet Strap on Harness

Comes in purple or black. Hand washable. Dildos sold separately.

Strap-on dildos, Strap-ons, harnesses, whatever you call them, they can be a little intimidating to the beginner. Fear not! Sex harnesses were invented to provide a variety of pleasure for anyone. They hold a dildo or vibrator in place using straps and O-rings, snaps, a hole in a panty-style piece of lingerie, or sometimes they are complete all-in-one pieces. Some harnesses hold both an external and an internal (or two internal) dildos or vibrators for self-satisfaction while pleasuring another. Harnesses that only hold internal dildos or vibrators are often called “chastities,” particularly if they lock in place.

While the popular impression is that strap-on harnesses are purely lesbian toys, they are also often used by heterosexual women performing anal sex on their boyfriend or husband. Men who are open to a variety of sexual experiences will find that anal sex can lead to incredibly massive and intense orgasms, mostly due to the internal stimulation of their prostate.

In theory, any dildo with a suction cup or balls can be used with a strap-on harness. In practice, however, the larger, heavier dildos tend to fall out of the cheaper harnesses, and even the best harnesses will have trouble holding really heavy dildos. There are a variety of dildos specifically designed for use with strap-on harnesses, with many choices of shape, size, and even vibration. Technology has advanced to make mutual sexual pleasure simple and effortless.