Lelo Ida Wave Review: On the Crest of the Wave, One Must Be Brave

OK, so I got a comment from one of my long-time acquaintances who follows our page ardently. When we were discussing sex toys (typical Saturday brunch small-talk), I was critical of a few low-end items that I tried and after patiently hearing me out, she interrupted me for a second. “You know, Scarlett, you got spoiled”. Spoiled? “You’ve tested so many of these devices that now you expect luxury and instant pleasure from your pieces”. I’ll be honest: before I even began writing the Lelo Ida Wave review, her words ran through me like a lance.

Was I becoming a sex toy snob?

I mean, that can’t be true, right? I still enjoy a regular, classic dildo without all the bells and whistles. And although this review will be about a high-end device from Lelo, I do have something to share with you wonderful readers. In fact, I’ll even directly quote my acquaintance here:

“Sure, you can aim for the price, the glamor and the dozens of features, but if the toy doesn’t make you smile or if it fails to satisfy, why not settle for a simpler tool that does? There’s nothing wrong with pricey, nor is there anything wrong with low-end toys as long as they perform well.”

Why Opt for Lelo Ida Wave?

Based on my intro, you’d think that I only recommend Lelo Ida Wave for its high price tag, which I admit is steep. But that’s not the case. In fact, I may have had a few experiences with Lelo before. Just an odd device here and there, like Lelo Mona 2, Lelo Ora 3, Lelo Enigma and Lelo Smart Wand 2, to name a few.

The reason I keep buying Lelo products is fairly simple: they are exceptional. I don’t remember ever buying a Lelo product that didn’t help me reach orgasm. It’s customer loyalty based purely on product quality. It’s also one of the reasons I continue to recommend them, sometimes even more than products I’ve rated higher in the past.

I suppose that this level of quality was what made me “spoiled” in the eyes of my acquaintance. But when you have consistently good sex toys, you kind of get used to the finer things in life. I mean, for heaven’s sake, I am currently reviewing my tenth Lelo! That’s got to tell you something!

First Impressions: Curvy, Comely and Cute

But enough about me. Let’s focus on the product. Interestingly, the Lelo Ida Wave shipment came alongside a few other toys, just as discreetly packaged. I tore into the box to see it slightly dented. This rarely happens with Lelo orders, so I chalked that up to our mailman just being a little careless on the job.

Inside the box was my tenth Lelo, shining in all its pink glory. There’s also a black option, but I chose this one because of its lovely pastel finish. Any way you look at it, you can see just how stunning it is! The curves are perfect for entry and it doesn’t feel bulky or heavy at all, though it is slightly heftier than some of the other vibrators and stimulators I have.

What’s in the Box?

Naturally, a toy this good doesn’t come alone. The box contained some of the basic items one can expect from Lelo:

• USB-charging cord;
• Satin storage pouch;
• Warranty registration card;
• Detailed instruction manual;
• Complimentary lube.

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Ida the Ideal: Features of the Lelo Ida Wave

Judging from my past experiences, I knew I could expect the Lelo Ida to come with some interesting features. Here’s a small list of the ones that helped me orgasm insanely well, over and over again.

• WaveMotion technology: insertable arm rotates in a finger-like motion against the G-spot (not standard vibration)
• External clitoral head: vibrates independently
• Dual motors: both run simultaneously; NOTE: motors are not independently intensity-controllable (both increase/decrease together via controls)
• 10 pleasure settings: 4 accessible via device button; 6 additional via LELO app
• LELO app: iOS and Android; Bluetooth close-range only – NO long-distance partner control
• 3.25-inch insertable length
• 1.1-inch insertable width
• 4.5-inch total length
• Weight: 3.6 oz
• 100% waterproof
• Body-safe silicone (surface) + ABS plastic (internal structure)
• 2-hour battery life
• 2-hour charge time
• 90-day standby
• USB rechargeable
• 1-year warranty + 10-year quality guarantee (register at lelo.com)
• Coral and black colorways
• Water-based lube only

Hands-free Handling

The modern world is awesome. I can connect a toy to my phone and let a nearby partner control the experience with just a few taps. Cutting-edge tech like smartphones, Bluetooth connectivity, and app-based controls has made hands-free pleasure feel more interactive than ever before. So, when I hear that a Lelo product has a neat little Android/iOS app for close-range control, I don’t overthink it; I get curious and start testing.

Now, apps tend to glitch out; that’s perfectly normal. The key to a good product is the efficacy rate. Does the product glitch out too often or just from time to time? If the answer is the latter, then that’s the toy I want inside me. Simple as that. And the Ida falls into that second category.

Prepare for Trouble and Make It Double!

Two motors: one in the insertable G-spot arm (WaveMotion rotating mechanism), one in the external clitoral head (standard vibration). Important note: the two motors cannot be set to different intensities independently. Increasing or decreasing the setting changes both simultaneously. The dual-motor advantage is coverage, not independent control – this is different from the Lovense Dolce which does offer full independent motor control per arm.

Ten Settings for Every Mood

A stimulator with 10 different speed and vibration settings. What else could a lady ask for? At times, I want intense sessions where my clit gets all the powerful stimulation it can handle. But then again, during those slow winter nights, a nice mellow touch will do me just fine. Ida has it all in that regard, which makes it a winner in my book.

Fitting Like a Glove

Due to its ergonomic shape, not only does the toy slide in comfortably, but the outer portion also rests evenly against the vulva. It has a flexible, one-size-fits-most feel, so you don’t have to worry too much if your clitoris sits a little lower or higher than average. You should still get steady external stimulation, and I definitely loved how well it worked for my body. Furthermore, because of how curvy and bendy it can be, the Ida is excellent for couple play. Richard and I had no problem using it during sex, which you’ll read about in a few paragraphs.

It Went by Swimmingly

Because of the silicone material making up the surface of the Ida, the toy can be easily washed with some hot water. But more importantly, it’s waterproof and perfectly suitable for underwater use. I even tried it in the tub a few times – works like a charm!

It’s All in the Touch

And since I’m on the subject of silicone, I can’t stress enough how soft and velvety it felt. Not quite like human skin, but smooth enough to glide beautifully over my most sensitive spots. By the end of one session, I felt incredibly turned on, highly sensitive, and completely satisfied. That’s how good it felt.

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The Lelo Ida Wave Review Proper: Performance Uber Alles

It took a couple of hours, but Ida was fully charged and ready to go. And before I describe my experiences with this little wonder, I have to stress that portion real quick. Namely, the charging time for the Ida is roughly the same as its runtime, which is around 2 hours. That’s a little too long for my taste, as I prefer my toys to be ready within an hour. However, it’s a minor issue since it still offers two solid hours of fun. Plus, it has a standby time of an incredible 90 days!

Testing the Settings: Solo Use

At first, I tried the lower settings, not going past the third. Both motors did their magic extremely well. I could feel a gentle tingle around my G-spot, and seconds later, I was softly moaning along with the low hum of the Ida. It took me a while, sure, but eventually, I reached orgasm and was already ready for round two.

This time, I was testing the app instead of clicking the designated button on the device itself. I went through the mid-level intensities and, no surprise, it felt a-ma-zing. So, I couldn’t wait and immediately tested the upper speeds. At one point, Richard came in to check what all the noise was about. “That good, huh?” he asked. My flushed, heavy-breathing face told him all he needed to know.

One’s Great, but Two’s a Blast

OK, so at that moment, the one I described above, Richard did something I genuinely wish he would do more often. He didn’t say much; he just rushed over, grabbed my phone (with the Ida still inside) and started flicking through the options.

We often play around with the concept of which partner takes control during sex, and this time, he didn’t disappoint. He took the initiative and used the app to make the stimulation feel even more intense. Seconds later, he was inside me while the Ida stayed in place, and the two sensations moved together in a surprisingly smooth rhythm. By the time it was over, we were both beside ourselves with giddy satisfaction.

Lelo Ida Wave Compared With Other Remote Control Vibrators

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	Lelo Ida Wave	Lovense Lush 3	Lelo Lyla 2	Lelo Tiani 3
features	The rotating shaft mimics a finger-like, come-hither motion, specifically targeting the G-spot with rhythmic pulsations for deeper stimulation It features 10 powerful vibration patterns, allowing users to customize their experience by adjusting intensity and rhythm Users can control the device remotely through the LELO app, enabling customization of settings and allowing partners to control the device from anywhere Made from high-quality, body-safe silicone, the Ida Wave is soft, hypoallergenic and free from harmful substances The vibrator operates with minimal noise, ensuring discretion and allowing for use in a variety of settings without disturbance	It features a magnetic charging port, making recharging the device easier and more convenient without needing to align plugs manually The Lush 3 is fully waterproof, making it easy to clean and suitable for use in the shower or bath for added versatility Despite its powerful vibrations, the Lush 3 operates very quietly, making it discreet for public or private play without drawing attention It can be controlled via the Lovense app, allowing users to adjust vibration patterns, intensities and even sync with music The Lush 3 offers strong, rumbly vibrations, designed to deliver deep, intense stimulation for maximum pleasure	The compact and ergonomic egg-shaped design makes the Lyla 2 easy to insert and comfortable to wear discreetly, even in public settings The remote includes SenseMotion technology, where users can adjust vibration intensity by simply tilting or moving the remote, offering a more interactive experience The device features strong, rumbly vibrations that provide deep, satisfying stimulation for both internal and external use The Lyla 2 comes with a wireless remote, allowing a partner to control the vibrations from up to 12 meters (40 feet) away, perfect for long-distance or discreet public play Made from high-quality, body-safe silicone and ABS plastic, the Lyla 2 is smooth, hypoallergenic and free from harmful chemicals	Despite its powerful performance, the Tiani 3 operates quietly, ensuring discreet use and making it suitable for various environments Fully waterproof, the Tiani 3 can be used in the shower or bath, adding versatility to where it can be enjoyed and making it easy to clean The Tiani 3 offers 8 vibration modes, including customizable intensity levels The flexible, ergonomic design fits comfortably inside the body while the external arm rests against the clitoris, providing optimal stimulation while remaining unobtrusive during intercourse The remote control features SenseMotion technology, allowing users to change vibration intensity through simple movements or tilts of the remote
price	From $195.17	From $119	From $172.25	From $184.96
users	41	249	134	61
our rating	4.3	5	4.5	4
power	USB Rechargeable	USB Rechargeable	USB Rechargeable	USB Rechargeable
material	Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic	Silicone	ABS plastic / Body-safe silicone	FDA-approved body-safe silicone / ABS plastic
waterproof	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
brand	Lelo	Lovense	Lelo	Lelo
type	Couples vibrator	App controlled vibrator	Remote control vibrator	Wireless remote vibrator
alergens	Phthalate-free - Non-porous	Phthalate-free - Non-porous	Phthalate-free - Non-porous	Phthalate-free - Non-porous
design	4.3	5	4.7	4.3
ease of use	4.3	4.9	4.6	4.2
orgasm	4.2	4.9	4.6	4.1
quality	4.4	5	4.8	4.2
noise	Whisper Quiet	Whisper Quiet	Whisper Quiet	Whisper Quiet
ease of clean	Easy	Easy	Easy	Easy
warranty	2 years	1 year	2 years	2 years

Lelo Ida Wave Review: Summing Up the Results

The LELO Ida Wave delivers on its core promise: WaveMotion G-spot stimulation combined with external clitoral vibration in a single premium-build waterproof toy. The two honest limitations: the app is close-range only (not long-distance as implied in the review body) and the motors are not independently controllable. Accept both and the Ida Wave is a strong choice for couples who want in-session app control without the complexity of full independent motor management.

Who Should Buy the LELO Ida Wave?

Mistakes to Avoid With the LELO Ida Wave

1. Expecting long-distance partner control. The Ida Wave app is close-range Bluetooth only. If you purchase it expecting long-distance internet bridge partner control, you will be disappointed. For long-distance use, the Lovense Dolce or We-Vibe Jive are the appropriate alternatives.
2. Using silicone or oil-based lube. The Ida Wave is silicone-coated throughout the insertable and external sections. Silicone and oil-based lubricants permanently degrade the surface. Water-based lube only, applied to the insertable arm and reapplied mid-session if needed.
3. Skipping the lube on the WaveMotion arm. The rotating mechanism creates internal movement throughout the session, not just at insertion. The standard rule of applying lube once at insertion is not sufficient here. Reapply as needed for comfort throughout the session.
4. Not cleaning the arm junction. The point where the insertable arm meets the external head is the most difficult area to clean and the most likely to trap residue. Use a soft cloth and dedicated toy cleaner, working carefully into this junction after every use.
5. Forgetting to lock the device before storage. Hold the + and minus buttons for 5 seconds to engage the travel lock before storing. This prevents accidental activation in the pouch and battery drain.

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